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Elizabeth Willis, PhD., is the former Director of The Institute of New Paradigm Intimacy where she lead and taught the the Globally Accredited Self Pleasure Modality™. She is also the Host of Miami’s Enlightenment in the Bedroom Series, the Tedx of Sexuality held in 9 locations worldwide. She is an educator of over 25 years, holding a PhD in Curriculum and Instruction, speaker to hundreds, author, facilitator and entrepreneur. Her work, rooted in the healing arts from a young age, is a priceless weave of her own journey in personal growth, sexuality and spiritual development, professional experience as an educator, facilitator and her own heartbreak in relationships as she journey's her soul's quest to deepen into the experience of a fierce love of life.
Sexuality
is not just glamorous, charming and oozing of pleasure. It's a feral, chaotic force opening wounds to finally be felt, understood, and alchemized. The depths of Eros are here to initiate you into
is not just glamorous, charming and oozing of pleasure. It's a feral, chaotic force opening wounds to finally be felt, understood, and alchemized. The depths of Eros are here to initiate you into
Eros
your true power.
begin your sacred sexuality healing journey
Eros—your life force and creative energy—is one of the most powerful, yet overlooked, drivers of innovation, leadership, and sustainable success. Across industries, burnout, disconnection, and power struggles aren’t just structural issues—they reflect a deeper loss of embodied presence.When this energy is suppressed, it distorts—showing up as control, disconnection, low creativity, and ethical misalignment. But when integrated responsibly, it becomes a resource. You’ll learn how to understand the body’s language, regulate the nervous system, hold clear boundaries, and lead with grounded, embodied authority. The result? Increased creativity, deeper connection, clearer decision-making, and a more energized, aligned way of working. The future of leadership isn’t performative—it’s embodied, alive, and deeply human.
A three-part initiatory journey through anxiety, attachment, fear, grief, and the erotic truth of who you are. Surface-level tools no longer reach the places that ache. Therapy and mindset keep you disconnected and without solutions, circling you back into the same painful patterns. This trilogy brings together three of our most powerful psychosomatic teachings—The Love Addict, Dweller on the Threshold, and Hell & Heartbreak—to guide you through the depths of your attachment patterns, your threshold fears, and the grief that lives at the core of your longing. Rooted in the Self Pleasure Modality™, our globally accredited, award-winning somatic method, this trilogy takes you into the body, the psyche, and the erotic underworld where real transformation.
Sexuality shapes how we bond, how we experience power, how we relate to our bodies, how we attach to others. It influences how we lead and where we collapse, how we create life—both literally and through the movement of life force itself.
Sexuality is not just something we do. It is something we are in relationship with. It is the current of life moving through the body—desire, creativity, connection, and truth. It is Eros—the animating force that brings us into contact with aliveness itself.
And yet, for most of us, this is something we were never taught to understand. We are not educated in desire, boundaries, communication, or the deeper intelligence of the body. This is the absence of sexual literacy.
In the new paradigm, sexuality is no longer something we bypass or misunderstand. It becomes conscious. It becomes integrated. It becomes intelligent. Sexuality Intelligence (SQ) is the capacity to meet Eros with awareness, integrity, and presence—to feel desire clearly, to communicate it honestly, to honor boundaries, and to engage in connection with depth and responsibility.
We are all
sexual beings.
Not in the way sensationalized sense culture inundates us with. Not in the way sexuality is sold or reduced to performance.
But in the deeper sense–biological, relational, psychological, energetic, and spiritual.
xx, Elizabeth
“The industry of sex and relating coaching is growing rapidly and is in need of more educated, qualified leaders, to create the safety needed for everyone to feel free.”
- Victoria Bardovic, Founder of The Insitute of New Paradigm Intimacy
- Victoria Bardovic, Founder of The Insitute of New Paradigm Intimacy
In this forthcoming series, Sexual Literacy and the Shadows We Refuse to Name, I explore the concept of Sexual Literacy and Sexual Intelligence (SQ) and aim to reposition sexuality from something hidden, misused, and sensationalized to something educational, developmental, and foundational to leadership and humanity itself.
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journal articles
March 23, 2026
We are All Sexual Beings: Why Sexual Illiteracy is a Cultural Crisis
Answering The Call To Sexuality
Sexuality scares people, which is why it stays one of the most hidden mysteries and a pathway for our deep unconscious patterns to play. Sexuality inherently holds a paradoxical tension—a deep yearning to explore its mysteries and embrace its power, while simultaneously triggering an urge to retreat, hide, and shield oneself from its vulnerability and intensity.
January 15, 2026
I was dripping wet. My body clung to his.
june 23, 2024
How our Relationship with our Orgasm can Shift our Anxious Attachment Pattern
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